Fun despite it all

So we are in manchester waiting for the train back to leamington. Last night was wendy house and the night before we were out in manc hoping friends would grace us with their presence. But again, for the fourth time running we were left alone. This has happened for our wedding, my graduation and now Sam's birthday, two years running now. It is not like we ask others for their entire evening. And yes a few have valid reasons. But the same excuses are now becoming tiresome. I once thought i might miss manchester. I can say i don't. Is being married too boring for some? Is it because we're not going to a rave? It mean't we wasted money, time and effort, things that are in short supply. From now on we won't try an organise things in advance. If people deem us worthy of their time then they can ask us if we will be about if they know we are in the area. I guess people we thought were friends are just 'people we know.' i will say thank you to those who did turn up or even left birthday greetings. But as for the rest i guess we're just not good enough for you.